How blessed would we
feel if we begin to understand the myriad expressions of love? Bet, we can’t
count them all. Each day everyone around us express their love towards us in
myriad ways. Some are understood, Some are best when not understood! :)
As a child, the first
love that we experience is that of our parents, the love that you call as
unconditional. The relationship is more taken for granted and better if it
remains that way. The times spent with friends during our school and college
life is entirely different what you would term more as Fun with Love. Nothing
that emphasizes care, nothing that truly gives you the feel that he/she is
there for you. But we don’t complain, it's understood. And Love is often
overrated; blame the movies or whatever, its different for different people.
The beauty lies when you don’t try to dissect the LOVE given to you to the WAY
perhaps you want it. In this correlation perhaps, the famous saying "What
you give is what you get" may not work :(. Now coming to the most
important part, the love shared when two individuals are married, it again gets
exaggerated. You may address Love only when "you get a peck on the
cheek" or perhaps by a "simple hug". Well even Love can be expressed
sometimes by just holding your hand while you are trying to cross a road or
perhaps when you simply ask, how your day went.
In summary, “Love is made up of three unconditional properties in equal measure:
1. Acceptance
2. Understanding
3. Appreciation
Remove any one of the three and the triangle falls apart. This, by the way, is something highly inadvisable. Think about it — do you really want to live in a world of only two dimensions? So, for the love of a triangle, please keep love whole.”
― Vera Nazarian
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