Tuesday, 18 August 2015

Myriad expressions of love?



How blessed would we feel if we begin to understand the myriad expressions of love? Bet, we can’t count them all. Each day everyone around us express their love towards us in myriad ways. Some are understood, Some are best when not understood! :)

As a child, the first love that we experience is that of our parents, the love that you call as unconditional. The relationship is more taken for granted and better if it remains that way. The times spent with friends during our school and college life is entirely different what you would term more as Fun with Love. Nothing that emphasizes care, nothing that truly gives you the feel that he/she is there for you. But we don’t complain, it's understood. And Love is often overrated; blame the movies or whatever, its different for different people. The beauty lies when you don’t try to dissect the LOVE given to you to the WAY perhaps you want it. In this correlation perhaps, the famous saying "What you give is what you get" may not work :(. Now coming to the most important part, the love shared when two individuals are married, it again gets exaggerated. You may address Love only when "you get a peck on the cheek" or perhaps by a "simple hug". Well even Love can be expressed sometimes by just holding your hand while you are trying to cross a road or perhaps when you simply ask, how your day went.


In summary, “Love is made up of three unconditional properties in equal measure:
1. Acceptance
2. Understanding
3. Appreciation 
Remove any one of the three and the triangle falls apart. This, by the way, is something highly inadvisable. Think about it — do you really want to live in a world of only two dimensions? So, for the love of a triangle, please keep love whole.” 
― Vera Nazarian


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