Avoid the “ME”

Emotion is a big rollercoaster ride, the more emotions we attach to any particular thing object, people or any aspects of our life, the more miserable we may feel when one day we have to disconnect from it. Yes, at times, we need to understand the mechanism of being a mere switch in our lives. “On” the attach button for things you really need and “off” the detach button for those you don’t. Avoid being EMOTIONAL, it will just back fire you. Trash the unwanted emotions or attachment on a daily basis like you would probably empty the garbage bin. Firstly, why are we getting so attached? It is but natural to feel this way, I am unable to still figure out how and why we get attached, but I know how not to get attached, I may sound negative but these small negativities are allowed as it will bring more positivity in your life. Rule number 1 is, to LET GO! Yes, practice the habit of letting it go when things don’t turn your way. No point stressing over a fact or a thing that has only caused disappointments, unhappiness. Follow the principle of “No Strings attached” in circumstances and you will begin to see changes which are good. It is not very easy as it may sound, it is only the more you practice this fact of avoiding emotions and facing the situation with much more courage.

To make you understand this better, let me correlate this to one of my experiences where I could have applied “No strings attached principle”. I was in a very good relationship with my friend where both of us took each other for granted, what happened because of this, she and I were thick of friends but in a mere chat or sms or group chats, it felt as though each one of us were not supportive of each other views in a common matter, it lead to misunderstanding and when explained, it did not seem important to my friend that our relationship was good all this while but just a trivial issue such as this has led to us not being in touch. Very juvenile, I agree, but these are the common things everyone faces. MISUNDERSTANDING in a communication, blame the technology that we forget to pick the phone and explain. But still, the point I am trying to drive here is that, misunderstanding can occur but how much of it affects you personally is what you need to gauge. If you apply a “No String attached” attitude here, perhaps even we could have stayed away from explaining ourselves and make it more ugly rather than make it more silly and fun. If we had cut off the emotions of “We used to be so close before” etc to “Hey, don’t take that personal”, would have been unintentional. If it really mattered, it would have been solved easily, it was not meant to be, so let it be J.

To simply put it, avoid ME to be a better YOU.