It
is very easy to say that a relationship has to be going two ways! There are no
two ways about it. It’s always your way or my way or sometimes the high way.
Just kidding! No, I am not going to repeat what has been said number of times
or what is always being perceived. I believe in the fact of giving in more,
well, if I begin to think that a relationship can be going absolutely peaceful
only if the giver/receiver is at complete symphony. I am wrong, how many times
have that been possible, sometimes the more you only expect and not get what
you really expect, then it’s going to be a cacophony. Why do we always let our
EGOS come in between any relationships we share? It’s just human tendency I
guess, you don’t have to agree with me, but the fact is EGOS destroy
relationships. Yes, I have seen many relationships that I would have lost
perhaps due to my own ego. Some learning’s have been at an early start of my
life.
That’s
when I decided, that I can’t change the way people think but I could change the
way I think so when I applied this formula in all the relationships I have, it
worked wonders, not that it changed the situation, everything remained the same
but the only difference was I learned to give in more without expecting
anything in return and what did I gain in return, happiness and not
disappointments, sometimes you have to let it go and only give in more. The
thought of just altering the mind from expecting to give itself will fetch a
lot of fruitful results. So I will let you guys ponder on this while I get
ready to give in more J…
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